Differential Dating-Volume 2 |
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| Author:
| Tooley, Warren |
| Series title: | Differential Dating Ser. |
| ISBN: | 978-1-5218-2207-4 |
| Publication Date: | Sep 2017 |
| Publisher: | Independently Published
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| Book Format: | Paperback |
| List Price: | USD $22.49 |
Book Description:
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In relationships communication is not always verbal. When the other person is really happy, or really sad there will be other ways in which they will indicate that they may for instance want things to change in their favor. While many people understand this much, most people don't know that their are different styles of communication.For instance, when some people are not happy with the way things are going they may decide to be extra kind, in the expectation that you will return the...
More DescriptionIn relationships communication is not always verbal. When the other person is really happy, or really sad there will be other ways in which they will indicate that they may for instance want things to change in their favor. While many people understand this much, most people don't know that their are different styles of communication.For instance, when some people are not happy with the way things are going they may decide to be extra kind, in the expectation that you will return the favor. For others they will be upfront and demanding, expecting you to make the changes they want you to make. Then of course there are those who will give you a tap on the shoulder as a way of saying I'm not happy I'm hoping we'll talk about this, and I'm willing to make changes if you are.So once you've figured out their style, is it worth your while to continue with them? If they are pushy and demanding, is that really the relationship you want to be in, when you could be with someone who doesn't handle it that way? In this way being in a relationship is like travelling in the forest. This of course is only one issue you will face. If they are wanting you to change, are they themselves willing to make some changes to keep you happy? What exactly are they doing for you in the first place? By answering these questions and others you can make intelligent decisions in regards to whether its worth discontinuing the relationship or continuing the relationship and being willing to make changes for the other person if they are willing to also make changes. Also note the author is a man who's had experiences with women.